Sunday, March 8, 2009

Women's Day! - Do We Really need one??



The mere fact that we celebrate “Women's day” shows that women are neglected for most part of their life and are just remembered and respected for a single day in a year. Only something which is ignored and neglected has to be remembered by inventing a day for it, like Aids day, cancer day and diabetics’ day. I think it’s not necessary to spread awareness about women and their services to the society for we live with them and everyone of us know their valuable contribution to the society and their families. If we really care about them it’s not fair to spread good things about women for a day and spread wrong signals for the rest 364 days of the year.
Women are exploited by every means; almost every commercial product needs a women model to attract attention. Even multinational companies and their products are marketed in such a way. A big automobile company calls its bike with a caption “definitely male”. Most of the bike and car manufacturers showcase their product as the easiest way to lure women, isn’t that misleading? Stop portraying women as a substance of sex in cinemas, television commercials and serials. Obscene songs and scenes in movies and other forms of media should be banned and the perpetrators of such a crime must be punished. There is a general excuse by these people by saying “we show what happens in the real world”, my question is “even if it happens why do you popularize and promote it?”
Definitely the literacy rate has gone up compared to a century back, but the heartening fact is that even as the literacy & living standards have gone up to a remarkable extent the number of crimes against women has increased manifold. We need to accept the fact that women were certainly more safe a hundred years back than they are today; Women are treated as a sacred creation of god and it’s morally not correct to portray them in a wrong manner. We don’t have a day for “humans”, do we? Does that mean humans don't have their space in the world? Certainly not. The day is not far that we will have to start celebrating "Human's Day" too, to show that humans are part of the universe when machines and robots engulf the planet. The day when we stop celebrating “women's day” and start living life by accepting women as part of it, is when women are really free. I feel at least in our country we should stop celebrating “women's day”, “mothers’ day”, ” Valentine's Day” as we respect women and they are part of us and our everyday life. These are westernized concepts where the real values of life are ignored and most people are after temporary and illusionary pleasures and get back to the basics of life just a day in a year which is simply unacceptable.

14 comments:

  1. Fantastic article... I liked it... ur english is very nice...

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  2. Real life needs reality. Your article speaks reality. Excellent

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  3. super ma....keep it up....

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  4. Fantastic. You said the fact.

    Years back women were safe but they were sitting at home not facing the world.Shall we call bird in the cage as safe?

    Good writing Jagan.

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  5. Wat u wrote is all true fact machi. Nice thought with good english words.

    Your mom should be proud of you.

    Great work. Keep it up.

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  6. Hey nice article Jagan. Very well stated facts which needs to be reached to the common mass.
    Keep the good work! :)

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  7. i totaly agree with Lavanya & Divya.....

    by ashwin

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  8. hey Jagz ... ur article states d truth ..gud

    but I stil feel v shud celebrate "womenz day", "motherz day" n so on ..

    jus bcoz v celebrate thez on specific dayz does NOT mean tht women r neglected on other dayz..its as simple as dis - does "independence" make sense 2 U only on Aug 15 ?? or do we loose respect for our teachrz on days other than Sep 5 ...neah ...
    or for tht matter "valentinz day" ... the feelnz r der in our heartz al 365 days ..its jus tht der r specific datez/dayz whn dez r expressed ....

    our parents, frenz don jus feel happy 4 us on our birthdayz ..but den dey cant go on arranging 4 parties, gifts n cakes throughout d year ..dey enjoy doin it n v also like being d center of attraction for tht 1 day ...dont v?

    luv ,care,respect,gratitude r feelnz tht r der always ..its jus tht dey r 'also expressed'n 'shown' on some particular dayz

    I agree wd d fact tht crime rate hz gone up n al tht U cited in dis article...thts a harsh reality ...but trust me even while living wd al dis I really like whn ppl wish me for womenz day ...d SMSz make my day n I wana acknowledge efforts put in by al d senderz jus 2 make us feel special :)

    I too luv my parenz ... (al 365 days - 24*7) ..he he ..but selecting greetinz n giftz for motherz day n fatherz day ..its jus so special

    even if dez r "westernized concepts" ..trust me our morals r not dictated by dez ... our values, behaviour r a result of d gud nurturing provided by our parenz, teachrz n welwishrz ... jus by celebrating dez few events/ occasionz ..v r in no way forgettn our roots ...


    1 request plz ... do wish me on my "birthday" n if psbl on "womenz day" alwayz ..he he

    thnx 4 being a nice human being n a gud fren
    ---
    Tanu Princess

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  9. Nice comment... Its really a treat reading such a nice debate...

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  10. hay Jagan... well articulated thought there...

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  11. Very well articulated Jagan, no words to appreciate the purity of your thoughts !! It is very difficult to come across ppl (espe. guys) like you, in today's world !!! :) Keep up the good work.

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  12. Nice article Jagan,
    Bt I agree with 'Tanu', celebrating women's day doesnt mean, women are ignored on rest of the 364 days.
    And as you mentioned about the commercial advertisements, advertisers have nothing to do with the women or men characters(to whomever they are using as per the situation).These advertisements are only meant for marketing.

    you are certainly correct that crime rate against women has increased alot,bt does that mean we shud stop celebrating women's day or any other day????
    The cause of increasing the crime rate is declination of moral values.

    If anything spreads a sense of care and love, I feel that shud b definitely adopted and continued. we shud nt miss such occasions just because our society is nt perfect.
    Such occasions if presented skillfully to our coming generation,these may come out as a helpful way to keep our moral values alive.
    In this fast going, materialistically progressing world , such things may give us a chance to get back to humanity.

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